The Buddy Bunch

Hey friends, With Creative blogs you can increase your informative knowledge. In our blog you will know Buddy is an informal way to particularly refer to a male friend.

 Many of us have friends in our lives over the years. Some friends we make as children and then lose contact as we grow older. Other friends we make as adults and stay in touch with as long as we are in close proximity to and it is convenient to keep in touch but then over time one moves away or busy schedules slowly pull us apart and we start to lose touch.  Those friendships fall into the “good friends” or “close friends” as the opening quote cites. But then there is that last group of friends – those we call true friends – they are those we have a mutual caring about, and we understand each other’s hearts.              As our family moved often and so I was constantly making new friends each place we moved. Often the contact was lost with friends in past locations, although my memories of them were treasured.              

Now let's know about True friends and jealousy friends.........    

Fake friends :       

                                           

  Our friends can become fake friends when we begin feeling ambivalent about them. Ambivalent relationships cause the most emotional strain, take the most energy, and are the most toxic. Once they stop talking to you, they talk about you.

Fake friends are like shadows. They follow you in the sun, but leave you in the dark.

Jealousy friends :                                             

 Jealousy may be driven by low self-esteem or a poor self-image. If you don't feel attractive and confident, it can be hard to truly believe that your partner loves and values you. Other times, jealousy can be caused by unrealistic expectations about the relationship. Some people expose only what's wrong in you because they can't stand what is right in you.

"Never hate people who are jealous of you, But respect their jealousy. They're the people who think you're better than them.".

True friends :

A true friendship is one that is not based on utility or pleasure, but rather mutual respect, admiration, and gratitude of the other person. This type of friendship is one that must grow over time.  A true friend is someone who thinks that you are a good egg even though he knows that you are slightly cracked.

“Good friends care for each other…close friends understand each other, but TRUE FRIENDS stay forever…beyond words, beyond distance, beyond time…!”

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The Serious Halt

Hello friends!.....This pandemic has hit us from nowhere and it pushed us into lots of ups and down! But, however, we made it through this. I am bringing you guys some mixed feelings which I came across in the disaster we faced. Firstly Why are we Serious? How will it attack us? Do you know any measures to overcome it? Plse comment ❤️.

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* Now let's know, Why are we Serious? 

  Taking life seriously doesn't mean taking everything seriously. It means knowing what will impact your experiences in life, taking those things seriously, and shaking off everything else. It means taking seriously what is in your control and not stressing over things that aren't. 

An overemphasis on seriousness in life lends itself to a narrow way of understanding what's worth your time and attention. It can even make you less productive by making you so nervous about one thing in particular. You are also likely to misjudge other people's reaction if you are too serious about everything.  

* How does it attack our life :

Are we serious all the time?- No, we are serious about some things, and some people, it might be our work or loved ones, anything or anybody. We are serious about them because we are afraid that things might go wrong or things might not happen the way we 'think'. Not everything happens in your way, but work wholeheartedly, and love wholeheartedly without fear of failure! 

* Measures to control it :

 

Do not judge or criticize a person in different circumstances, rather think from their perspective, because things could be different for them and they really mean it! If you have time to feel like shit, complain, and check social media, then you have time to meditate, write your journal, call a best friend, and make things you are grateful for.   Sturdy goals

Life is more FUN when you don't take it so seriously. Taking life too seriously leads to being a stressed out, scared, angry, boring human being in bad health. Being able to laugh at life, relax into the moment, and accept things as they are is a much better gig. "Please share and comment ❤️ Enjoy your life ✌️.".      . karma

"To be honest - instead of being Mindful, you must be kindful."

Earn 💰as a greenhorn

Hello Humans!.... We as students of this age face more expenses than our parents did. There is not even a question on how expensive things are nowadays. Take it our internet expense or our routine expense. And thus it becomes necessary for us to earn money.

Gone are the days when you had to go from place to place looking for work to make some extra income or say, supplement your salary. It was difficult to strike a balance between your personal & professional lives. The situation has changed as a result of technological advances and the accessibility of internet. Now you can easily find both full-time jobs and part-time jobs at your home and work in your comfort.

            students mind psychology

 * Why do students need to make money?

According to a survey, students who work while studying in college are found to be more good at adapting to new situations. They can deal with things in a better manner. They can communicate better. Networking as a student becomes easy as a student. Besides all that learning new skills, technical or nontechnical is another advantage. A student learns the value of money. Also learns money management from a very early age. Having money for their extra expenses is just the cherry on the top. Hence if you are a student reading this, take out the chance to earn money

                  Sturdy Goals

* Ways on How to make money in India?

It was critically harder to earn money online in India in previous years. However, with the popularity and easy reach of the internet, it has become easier folqlqqqql students. The scope of earning money online in India is very vast. But unfortunately, most people do not know about them. Students nowadays can try out various non-traditional ways. These ways help in earning money online in India without letting the students miss out on their studies. Here there are few ways to start your income :

• Blogging or Vloging.

• Become an online tutor.

• Content writer.

• Local jobs in your area .

• Data entry.

• Social media designer and many other.

You can either choose to do nothing when in college or to take up new experiences. Trying out new things and persevering your interests and talents will always be a plus point for your career. It will nurture your personality, mental capabilities, and skills. If you have any other suggestions to earn, Plse comment ❤️. 

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" Be a lifelong student, the more you learn, the more you earn💰, Just have patience"

DEPRESSION EPISODE - 2

Hello Humans!...Do you feel depressed or suicidal? Do you have questions related to your own or someone's mental health? No one can detail life with depression and other mental illnesses better than people who are actually going through it. Do you think mental illness can hammer your life? Please share and comment ❤️

Depression Episode 1

Depression affects more than 264 million people worldwide — yet it can be hard for some people who live with depression to find the resources they need. Having a hopeless or helpless outlook on your life is the most common symptom of depression. Let's come to few situations and know why are you depressed.

* Why do girls cry so much ?

A study from 2012 found that women have 60 percent more prolactin, which is a reproductive hormone that stimulates the production of milk in women after childbirth, than the average male. Emotional tears are especially high in prolactin, which could explain why women cry more often than men.

It's a girl

* Educational Depression 

Additionally, students who have academic stress tend to do poorly in school.  Research also suggests that if given help or a better academic situation, students will have better mental health.

Many students face anxiety when they think they cannot achieve their academic or non-academic purposes; however, sometimes anxiety can encourage students to think more critically about how to achieve their goals. Students cope with anxiety in different ways addicting to drugs , but some may struggle.

STURDY GOALS

* Failure leading to depression :

You might feel that other people of your age have accomplished more in life, that you're less competent than others in your field or that you're not as intelligent as the people you mix with. Chronic failure to achieve the goals would lead to higher levels of rumination and increased depression and even anxiety in the participants. 

                                                        *Descriminational depression :

• Colour :There is considerable research to suggest that the stress associated with experiencing racism can have long lasting physical effects including blood pressure and weaken immune system leading the black to associate with beauty styles and expression.

Students mind psychology

• Status: At the individual level, multiple discrimination shows a positive correlation with the depression scale, which means that combined types of discrimination may determine higher levels of depressive symptoms.

                                                                      

* Suggestions to overcome depression :

To overcome it, we are suggesting you 2 new methods of treatments -

• 3-3-3 rule :

 Look around you and name three things you see. Then, name three sounds you hear. Finally, move three parts of your body — your ankle, fingers, or arm.

• 54321 rule:

 The most common grounding technique for anxiety attacks is the 54321 method. In this, you identify… Taste is sometimes hard to identify, so you could substitute that by thinking of your favorite thing to taste. Some versions of the 54321 grounding method say to name one thing you like about yourself.

We are witnessing the mental health crisis unfolding simultaneously with the pandemic.Have you all experienced depression in ur journey of life in any ways if yes acknowledge🥲 and comment ❤️. We are left with a simple conclusion

 "There is no health without mental health!"

 

KARMA -2 -The Roast

 Do you think Boys lovestory ends with an unemployed life ? Let me reveal the unsuccessful lovestory of a famous person who earns lakhs per hour by his astrology predictions and how his life roasts the world. Karma -1. The Rise

Before I share the story, let me introduce the famous person. He is Puneeth Gupta - Founder & CEO of AstroTalk, which provides online Astrology consultation on call/chat. AstroTalk was started on October 2017 and within a span of 2 years, they became the market leaders (by Revenue) as they just did one thing right - “Did the business honestly.”

        Puneet Gupta - Founder AstroTalk 

* Let me start the story :

 

          He comes from a lower-middle-class family and got graduated in B.Tech from Punjab Engineering College, Chandigarh in 2011. Through campus placement, he got into Nomura Group (Investment Bank of Japan) in Mumbai, Maharashtra, India and started his career there. He was a fresher and has to face many problems as mentioned in Chapter 1.

KARMA -1 The Rise.

Meanwhile he fell in love with a gorgeous lady who hailed from a upper middle class family. As she lead a royal life, she was quite irritated by his sense of satisfaction in life. He just had a Bike which she felt uncomfortable and told "My father drives a Mercedes and your whole family has not seen a car. You are so lucky that I still love you…” and ended with a breakup.

Success gives you love, But a failure shows you life......!!

After few days, he often came across this question from his friends in a very astonishing way, “How come you into Astrology?,” as he had mocked everyone who ever talked about astrology. However, today he is proud to share his journey with everyone that he is the FOUNDER of ASTRO - TALK. He ends his words by saying that a few years of focus can take you way ahead in life.

Now what's the situation when u have money and success ?

 

KARMA -1 The Rise

You know how people treat when you have money. Those who treat you differently, see the title, not the person. In that scenario, keep those people in your circle of acquaintances, should you deem their presence and/or influence worthwhile. Otherwise, disregard them and move on.

Some outstanding people say that,

" MONEY matters than HONEY".

On a larger scale, karma determines where a person will be reborn and their status in their next life. Good karma can result in being born in one of the heavenly realms. Do you think can hardwork tackle karma. Plse comment🍫 and share the link.  And this suggests that the content matches to the title. 

"According to karma, what you have done, you become and a broken 💔 ends with a successful life. Instead of going beyond girls, go beyond your goals.Sturdy Goals "

DEPRESSION EPISODE - 1

Hello Humans! This Covid19 epidemic has made people realize that money, power, National guards, national borderlines, Security men can't stop us from getting infected! In the end; Humanity, caring showing empathy and being safe matters. 

Depression is a serious mental illness that can interfere with a person's life. It can cause long-lasting and severe feelings of sadness, hopelessness, and a loss of interest in activities. It can also cause physical symptoms of pain, appetite changes, and sleep problems.

Major depression is most likely to affect people between the ages of 45 and 65. “People in middle age are at the top of the bell curve for depression, but the people at each end of the curve, the very young and very old, may be at higher risk for severe depression,” says Walch. 

* Why Depression happens?

While we don’t know exactly what causes depression, a number of things are often linked to its development. Depression usually results from a combination of recent events and other longer-term or personal factors, rather than one immediate issue or event.

* Changes in the brain :

 Factors such as genetic vulnerability, severe life stressors, substances you may take (some medications, drugs and alcohol) and medical conditions can affect the way your brain regulates your moods.

* Low mood :

Low mood is an emotional state characterised by sadness, anxiety, low self-esteem, tiredness, and frustration.A low mood should lift after a few days, but if it lasts longer than about 2 weeks, it may be a sign of depression.

* Bad mood on the way towards death :

It's very common to experience feelings of anger after the loss of a loved one. ... We have no control over death, and so it's normal to feel anger. But it can be one of the most confusing feelings to experience at such a time. People expect to feel sad, lonely or tearful.

Limerence: An addiction to love

For some people, lovesickness goes beyond butterflies: It may also induce physical effects, such as heart palpitations, shortness of breath, stomach pain, loss of sleep, and depression. People get irritated when their lover calls them as brother when they love them secretly.

* How can it be treated?

Depression is among the most treatable of mental disorders. Between 80% and 90% percent of people with depression eventually respond well to treatment. Almost all patients gain some relief from their symptoms.Medications and psychotherapy are effective for most people with depression. Eat healthy, Exercise, get in a routine and set goals,

sleep well, challenging negative thoughts can bring you out from depression.

What does depression mean to you? Is it similar to happiness? Or is it the absence of mental health? Plse comment ❤️. Let's know how reacting in depressed mood ruins your life in few situations......

Depression Episode 2

Sturdy Goals

 Hey peps, This pandemic has hit us from nowhere and it pushed us into lots of ups and down! But, however, we made it through this. I am bringing you guys the most important matter in your life. 

 

A goal is an idea of the future or desired result that a person or a group of people envision, plan and commit to achieve. People endeavour to reach goals within a finite time by setting deadlines. As a teenager, I have comeacross setting goals and would like to bring to your notice.

* Why do we need goals ?

If you want to succeed, you need to set goals. Without goals you lack focus and direction. Goal setting not only allows you to take control of your life's direction; it also provides you a benchmark for determining whether you are actually succeeding. Think about it: having a million dollars in the bank is only proof of success if one of your goals is to amass riches. 

* How to dream a goal ?

Dreams are imaginary. Goals are based in reality. You may dream of being Superman, but that is probably not going to happen. Goals are about what you can actually accomplish. They are grounded in the reality of our world. Goals should be big, but not supernatural.Goals have a finish line. Dreams never have to end. Dreams can go on forever. They don’t have to have an ending point. Goals must have a specific outcome.

* How to build a smart goal?

Setting SMART goals means you can clarify your ideas, focus your efforts, use your time and resources productively, and increase your chances of achieving what you want in life.To build this you must be:

Decide.Think of something you want to do or work towards.Write it down carefully.

Tell someone. Telling someone we know about our goals also seems to increase the likelihood that we will stick at them.

Break your goal down.Plan your first step.

Keep going. Work on it. 

*Distractions and Negativity:

This often happens when you think a task is difficult or when you've never done it before. It can also happen when you're overwhelmed with a lot of other activities. When your brain is full of too many other thoughts, it can be a struggle to focus on the task at hand and accomplish what you need to.

To tackle it and focus on your goals :

• Be in control of Social media.

• Staying Organized and keeping on task.

• Keep your mind and body active.

• Talk less

• Meditate

* Action plan towards goals :

An action plan is a checklist for the steps or tasks you need to complete in order to achieve the goals you have set. It’s an essential part of the strategic planning process and helps with improving teamwork planning. Not only in project management, but action plans can be used by individuals to prepare a strategy to achieve their own personal goals as well. 

Instead going beyond girls and ruining your life, go beyond goals and succeed in life. Do you think goals matters more than girls? Plse comment 💜.

" Boys don't follow girls...❤️ follow ur goals💲,automatically one day girls will follow you " 

It's a girl

As India works to recover from the pandemic, women should be at the heart of its strategy to ensure actions improve Indian women’s lives and foster widespread societal benefits.Despite being a universal crisis, the COVID-19 pandemic has had a disproportionate impact on women, emerging evidence indicates.   Do you know, What are the problems faced by women's ? Can you suggest how can it be deputized?

As a teenager, I have come across some problems faced by girls in the present world.

Female foeticide :

Female foeticide is the process of finding out the sex of the foetus and undergoing abortion if it is a girl. Although it is illegal, many people continue to practice it. Besides this, there are some communities which practice female infanticide - the practice of killing the girl child once she is born. The Indian government has passed Pre-Conception and Pre-Natal Diagnostic Techniques Act (PCPNDT) in 1994 to ban and punish prenatal sex screening and female foeticide.

Literacy :

"Poor girls drop out of school because they are not interested in getting an education”  as there are no facilities in rural areas, especially in Adivasi areas,

Not even proper schools, No teacher in the schools on regular basis, No schools near their homes, No transport facilities if the schools are far away, Families too poor to afford schooling expenses, Discrimination on the basis of caste, creed, religion or sex, Preference for boys for education and not girls.

Burdening women :

Many girls face the double burden of performing household chores within their own households (for example, cleaning, cooking, childcare, collecting water and firewood), combined with agricultural activities, such as sowing, harvesting and livestock holdings.  Additionally, a higher percentage or girl child labourers are unpaid; and in the situation that child labourers are paid, girls are often paid less than boys for doing the same job.

Child marriage: 

Child Marriage is defined as a marriage of a girl or boy before the age of 18 and refers to both formal marriages and informal unions in which children under the age of 18 live with a partner as if married. ... Child marriage violates children's rights and places them at high risk of violence, exploitation, and abuse.

Dowry :

A dowry is a payment, such as property or money, paid by the bride's family to the groom or his family at the time of marriage. ... The custom of dowry is most common in cultures that are strongly patrilineal and that expect women to reside with or near their husband's family (patrilocality).

Violation on women :

Rape is the fourth most common crime against women in India. According to the 2019 annual report of the National Crime Records Bureau (NCRB), 32033 rape cases were registered across the country, or an average of 88 cases daily, slightly lower than 2018 when 91 cases were registered daily.  

Self defence :

    

         It is recommended to keep your purse front and walk on the roads by paying full attention around the road. 

• Safety :        The primary importance of self-defence is for women to be able to protect themselves against anything that's unacceptable in terms of social conduct. 

• Confidence:  There is nothing more empowering than having the confidence to analyse a dangerous situation and take actions to overcome them effectively.

My small shabdkosh about girls,

She's just a girl, and she's on fire

Hotter than a fantasy, longer like a highway

She's living in a world, and it's on fire

Feeling the catastrophe, but she knows she can fly away

she got both feet on the ground

And she's burning it down

she got her head in the clouds

And she's not backing down 

girl is on fire

She is clothed with strength and dignity, and she laughs without fear of the future.

" Girls are strong, when everything seems to be going wrong."

Are girls happy in this current world?What mindset does society have for women? Plse comment ❤️ , share if u think this is right💜, support  if u have seen or faced this in life 💛.

Karma-1 The Rise

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KARMA - 1 The Rise

Karma means action.The difference is that karma is an equal and similar reaction. Every action, whether physical, mental or emotional, causes an emission of karma, which will bear fruit at some point.

Since Independence (1947), India is still one of the poorest countries in the world. Other countries, much smaller than India, have surged for­ward. Of the world’s poor, every third person is an Indian, and the number is on the increase. What are your suggestions to make India a developed country?

 Some of the variables on which the poor differ from others are de­gree of participation in the labour force, kind of employment, characteristics of family, degree of knowledge of the larger society, po­litical awareness, awareness of social and economic rights, and value orientations in politics, religion and social customs. 

* Now what is the situation when there is no job?

There is one cousin of mine who is still not employed and he falls into the middle-class category(It feels sad to use this term). Its very difficult to imagine their situation but I have a basic idea of how he and his family feels.

• Frustration: Yes,the first and the foremost thing is the ill feeling of being unemployed especially when you belong to a middle class category. You have so many responsibilities to fulfill but there is hardly anything you can do about it.

• Lower self confidence: Your confidence is just shattered from head to toe. Its difficult for you to lift yourself up. You even doubt whether you will ever get a job.

• Issues with other family members: You and your family start getting into conflict amongst yourself and also with other members. It keeps on increasing day-by-day and it continues to increase.

*Now what is the situation when freshers join a job?

There is another cousin of mine who is employed as a fresher and has faced many problems after joining his job.

• Hesitations while sharing the opinion : 

Mostly, freshers in their jobs do not have a lot of experience. This can hamper their confidence and in a new environment, it can become really difficult for them to voice their opinions in front of other staff. 

• Adjusting to the new environment :

An office environment is fairly a new space for a fresher. Coming from college, this can be a different experience, in some cases, a cultural shock too. From being a senior in college to becoming a junior in the office could be a tough transition. Try communicating with other people who joined with you as a fresher.

• Time Management : 

Managing time in college compared to the office could be different. College was more flexible whereas, in office, you have limited time to deliver your work. Commuting from work to office also takes up a lot of time. With work also comes a lot of responsibility. 

• Lack of technological knowledge : 

In college, the education provided is mostly bound to a syllabus. It is almost all theoretical. While college teaches you about the work, what you do not learn is the technology that a specific job might require.

• Working as a team :

In most corporations, people work as a team. It could be a new setting for a fresher to work. I think not many people are comfortable with working in a team. You have to commit your bit because you can’t impose that on anyone. 

Challenges make life worth living. Despite these generic challenges that freshers face in the corporate world, there are always new things to learn and new areas to explore. 

                   In this present scenario, people think as the subtitle suggest - The Rise, continued part may be - The Rule. But the Chapter is beyond your imagination.

Do you think Boys lovestory ends with an unemployed life ? Plse wait and watch for the unsuccessful lovestory of a famous person who earns lakhs per hour by his astrology predictions  and how his life roasts the world. Can u guess who is that ?  Please comment ? 

The current Chapter begins............

        Karma -2. The Roast

      

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