Many of us have friends in our lives over the years. Some friends we make as children and then lose contact as we grow older. Other friends we make as adults and stay in touch with as long as we are in close proximity to and it is convenient to keep in touch but then over time one moves away or busy schedules slowly pull us apart and we start to lose touch. Those friendships fall into the “good friends” or “close friends” as the opening quote cites. But then there is that last group of friends – those we call true friends – they are those we have a mutual caring about, and we understand each other’s hearts. As our family moved often and so I was constantly making new friends each place we moved. Often the contact was lost with friends in past locations, although my memories of them were treasured.
Now let's know about True friends and jealousy friends.........
Our friends can become fake friends when we begin feeling ambivalent about them. Ambivalent relationships cause the most emotional strain, take the most energy, and are the most toxic. Once they stop talking to you, they talk about you.
Fake friends are like shadows. They follow you in the sun, but leave you in the dark.
Jealousy friends :
Jealousy may be driven by low self-esteem or a poor self-image. If you don't feel attractive and confident, it can be hard to truly believe that your partner loves and values you. Other times, jealousy can be caused by unrealistic expectations about the relationship. Some people expose only what's wrong in you because they can't stand what is right in you.
"Never hate people who are jealous of you, But respect their jealousy. They're the people who think you're better than them.".
True friends :
A true friendship is one that is not based on utility or pleasure, but rather mutual respect, admiration, and gratitude of the other person. This type of friendship is one that must grow over time. A true friend is someone who thinks that you are a good egg even though he knows that you are slightly cracked.
“Good friends care for each other…close friends understand each other, but TRUE FRIENDS stay forever…beyond words, beyond distance, beyond time…!”
- Creative blogs
No comments:
Post a Comment